Showing posts with label Elin. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Elin. Show all posts

Friday, December 11, 2009

Tiger Woods’ Affair(s) Brings Out The Haters Who Were Waiting

The blood is in the water and the sharks are circling.

Tiger Woods has been getting hammered by more than just his wife, Elin, since his car accident and alleged affairs have been thrust into the media’s range.

Obviously, I don’t condone marital infidelity by Woods or anyone else – whether it was with one woman or it was with 15. And, the same holds true for women because, contrary to popular belief, women cheat just like men cheat. Still, if even a portion of what is being alleged about Tiger Woods is true then it does almost seem as though he had a whole separate life that a lot of people did not know about. But, should any of us really be shocked? No. Tiger Woods is a human beings and human beings do good things and human beings do bad things. The only ones who are shocked are those who put Tiger Woods on a pedestal (because they admired him so much or because they wanted to see him fall from it).

That said, one thing I have found interesting about the Woods’ mess is the reaction of some of Tiger’s fellow golfers who have turned the Professional Golf Association (PGA) into the Professional Haters Association (PHA). It’s amazing how Woods’ seemingly self-inflicted misery (which has damaged his reputation, but not irreparably) has opened the door to the closet haters to come out and bash the player (Tiger Woods).

I found this at Huffington Post which quotes Life & Style:

For the time being, Tiger Woods’ major sponsors — including Nike and Tag Heuer – haven’t dropped him. But things could change in the wake of a messy, public divorce. In fact, many of Tiger’s colleagues in the golf world have already made up their minds about the situation — and wasted no time badmouthing their former friend. Jesper Parnevik, the Swedish golfer who introduced Elin, then his kids’ nanny, to Tiger, has said he regrets doing so. “We probably thought he was a better guy than he is,” Parnevik said.

Ben Crane, a PGA player, has even harsher words. “This is no surprise to anyone who knows Tiger,” Crane tells Life & Style. “He’s a phony and a fake and he can’t retain that squeaky-clean endorsement deal any longer.” Crane also believes Elin may have known about Tiger’s other women. ”She’s no fool,” Crane says, adding that perhaps Elin “turned a blind eye because of the money and the kids and the lifestyle he provides.”

PGA golfer Charles Warren agrees that it may have been more than love that attracted Elin to Tiger but that she should definitely leave him in light of what’s happened. “She was very young when Jesper introduced them,” Warren tells Life & Style. “She had stars in her eyes and maybe dollar signs too. But no, she should not stay with him. What kind of message would that send to her sister and mother and all the women out there? That your husband can be a bastard but as long as he makes the deal worthwhile, you’ll stay?”

For more on Tiger’s cheating, pick up the new issue of Life & Style, on newsstands now!

That represents some interesting stuff to me.

Some of these cats have been waiting on an opportunity like this one to get at Tiger Woods.

“… Squeaky-clean endorsement deal…” Crane said.

That is an interesting statement.

Crane, a PHA player, went to work on Woods with some scathing comments that frankly stinks of him having a lot of hate inside of him. Crane, running a clinic on player hating with these comments, sounds like a guy holding inner resentment toward Woods and waiting on something to happen so he could express his true feelings.

The mess is for Tiger and Elin to sort out, but it is interesting how it reveals the ugly side of some other people who see an opportunity to attack this couple – most likely out of suppressed jealousy.

Sunday, November 29, 2009

Did Somebody Just Turn On Waiting To Exhale? Please Stop...

"Waiting To Exhale" is a very good movie. I've watched it once or twice and, although it is a fairly well-done film, the one or two times I watched it was more than enough for me.

Excuse me if I have a difficult time not vomiting at the sounds of all this victimization that so many women wallow in when it comes to infidelity. I stumbled across this blog on the Booker Rising site and, obviously, it caught and held my attention. Sandra Rose's blog is titled, "More Proof That Men Are Cheats By Nature."

She writes:
Every sistah who has ever had their suspicions confirmed about their cheating men can identify with Elin. Tiger is lucky his wife reached for one of his golf clubs and not a knife or a gun.

But on the other hand, Elin should have known better. You don’t marry a rich and powerful man and not expect him to keep a mistress on the side. Keeping a mistress or two just goes with the territory when you’re rich and famous — and they all do it. Wives who think their husbands don’t cheat are delusional.

Now it remains to be seen if Elin will be charged with domestic battery or will the cover up continue.
The anger level seem to be on full alert as the author seems to indirectly pronounce Woods guilty as charged of infidelity.

Is this a lost scene from "Waiting to Exhale" or "Jungle Fever" (when the women are in the house in full male-bashing mode). I am not one who likes to jump to conclusions in a case like this one (even though some of the circumstances are suspect to say the very least). The curious and still mysterious case of Tiger Woods is not blanket proof of male nature for women who make bad choices and pick the wrong men for the wrong reasons and then cry foul when it doesn't work out and they are not able to convert the guy into the image they want (after having stepped over good men who don't meet some oftentimes materialistic or superficial standard).

Those who point fingers in cases like this typically do so to mask their own shortcomings.

Here is the blog from Sandra Rose:
http://sandrarose.com/2009/11/28/more-proof-that-men-are-cheats-by-nature-3/